Over a year ago, I remember having a conversation with my
mom about time. I was in the middle of hurriedly cleaning our master bathroom
when she called around 10:00 p.m. At some point during the conversation, I
commented, “I can’t keep this house clean now, how in the world am I going to
do it when I have kids?” Of course, she laughed and told me that when the time
came for it, I would adjust.
Many months later, we welcomed Owen into the world and after
choosing to stay at home with him instead of returning to my teaching job, I
thought I would have no problem getting everything done – cleaning the house,
working a few part-time hours a day, running errands, keeping up with laundry,
having dinner ready when my husband came home and so on.
Unfortunately things didn’t work out like my mind had laid
them out. I found myself trying to complete all of the week's cleaning tasks and
grocery shopping on one day – Whew! How exhausting! – And trying to get in
three hours of work on Monday through Friday seemed nearly impossible. Finally,
I decided that I had to buckle down and do something about my inability to
manage my time.
Conviction set in when I started studying the Proverbs 31
woman in my devotional time. She “worketh willingly with her hands” and “riseth
also while it is yet night” -
Yikes! On that one! She is definitely described as a woman who uses her time
well and accomplishes all of her duties in an organized way because she gets
everything done!
So, where did I get started? I found these templates at http://moneysavingmom.com/downloads/household-management-forms
and decided to write everything out and stick to it! I downloaded the blank
daily and monthly schedules and filled them out to fit my day.
I also decided that I had to get up BEFORE my son in order
to get everything accomplished (3 hours earlier to be exact). So far, I’m a
month in. My house is cleaner than it every has been on a consistent basis, the
laundry stays in check, I get three hours of work in every day, spend lots of
time with Owen, and have time to run errands and do anything that may pop up
unexpectedly.
A tool that helped me? The Mead Organizher – I put all my
schedules in it and keep it on my fridge (Even though I hate fridge clutter) –
It has three pages and works great for keeping those schedules visible and
accessible.
I must say, I’m not nearly as stressed and I love having
everything done at the end of the day!
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ReplyDeleteHey girl!!
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to say THANK YOU for posting this!! I'm definitely going to give this a try. I am five weeks into this Mommy thing :) and I'm loving every minute of it. My house, however, has taken a backseat to everything, plus I'm trying to work part time from home too. I was so overwhelmed the other day thinking about trying to go back into the office 1-2 days a week and work from home the other days when I can't seem to keep up with things now! I too have made the mistake of trying to clean the ENTIRE house in one day...not a good idea! I've been looking for a way to break down the To-Do list and make it more manageable, so I'm super excited about giving this a try! Thanks again for the post, and I look forward to reading future posts! :)
~Heather~